Im a woman, is it normal to have very light and fine hair around my nipples?
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Hair on and around the areolas is normal for a lot of people with breasts. It’s particularly common in people who are dark haired, or who have naturally coarser body hair.
It can also be a sign of a hormonal disorder, such as polycystic ovary syndrome. However, such hormonal disorders tend to present with a condition called hirsutism, which is a symptomatic medical condition where excessive body hair appears on a female body where hair doesn’t typically grow in excess (such as on the face and the chest).
From what you’ve very briefly described, however, it sounds like nothing to be concerned about and can be dealt with through safe measures of hair removal.
Is it possible to get pregnant if you swallow cum?
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If your oesophagus is directly attached to your reproductive system, yes. Hopefully, you don’t have this problem.
26 Apr 2011 @ 04:02AM /
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I have tuberous breast deformity and it absolutely shatters my self confidence. I hate being topless and I definitely cannot be topless during sex.
I even read a feminist blog about how the woman with the same issue feels ashamed, and how the only way to fix this is through breast augmentation - that's a huge deal for a feminist to want to alter her breasts!
I just feel hopeless :(
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Tuberous breast deformity, or tubular breasts, is a form of hypoplasia - that is, an underdevelopment or incomplete development of particular tissues on the human body. It can affect any area of the breast, from the actual breast tissue, to the distribution of breast tissue, to the areola. The way in which the volume of breast tissue distributes unevenly in tubular breasts often creates a herniation of the tissues surrounding/behind the areola, which gives the ‘drooping’ tubular appearance. Depending on the severity of the condition, tubular breasts can present problems for breast feeding, if the actual mammary ducts have been compromised.
Both men and women experience tubular breasts. It’s a congenital condition (that is, the genes for tuberous breast deformity are typically inherited) that occurs during puberty, where the development of breast tissue fails to properly complete full development. Because there’s no non-invasive cure for tuberous breast deformity, the only solution is through surgery. Breast surgery options range from expansion of the breast tissues using silicone-inflated balloons to even the shape, to a breast uplift (mastopexy), to actual augmentation where implants are inserted. It’s one of the only circumstances in which corrective breast surgery is often readily considered acceptable for teenagers.
It is an understandably self-esteem shattering situation for those who have the condition. It is not, after all, an issue of vanity. Rather, it is an actual medical condition, an actual hypoplasia and considered a “deformity”. It is not something to be ashamed of, though, regardless how ashamed you may feel about your breasts. This is not your fault; one has no control over their genes, and tuberous breast deformity occurs more frequently than you may believe.
In fact, on a personal level, a very good friend of mine has tubular breasts; she experiences the exact same feelings of inadequacy and insecurity that you have expressed. Had she not told me, however, I never would have noticed. Even with the knowledge that she has the condition, it still doesn’t strike me as obvious. The insecurity she feels is much more within her own awareness of the condition rather than other people’s awareness. I mention this in hope that it may be of some reassurance to you that the visual presentation of tubular breasts will not be obvious to most, nor will it matter to them.
Corrective breast surgery is not a financially viable option for some, however I recommend doing research on the options available: look into insurance options, email reputable breast surgeons for information and possible consultations, find out as much information as you can. You never know where such research may lead you.
I have to ask for an advice... I tend to get really horny everytime I see gore, really violent sex or necro sex. I don't know what's wrong with me but I think my girlfriend is getting a little disgusted by that. (I'm a girl too). And I can't get horny when I see normal porn and it's really frustrating. This is really weird, but should I go to a therapist or something like that?
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Everyone has fantasies. It’s very common for people to be aroused by violence, gore, horror and disturbing imagery. What a person fantasies about in no way reflects the kind of person they are - fantasies don’t define a person, however odd the fantasies may seem. Violent fantasies don’t in any way mean that the person who has those fantasies is a violent person, or that they have desires to hurt another human being. The brain is a very complex and complicated thing and there are endless reasons for why a person finds sexual gratification in fantasies.
Only when a person can’t recognise the boundary between fantasy and reality does a fantasy become potentially inhibiting on their life, or even dangerous. It doesn’t sound to me like you have this issue, however - you’ve demonstrated the knowledge that you know these things would be wrong to carry out in real life.
I don’t think you need to see a therapist. That’s entirely up to you. Do you feel you need to talk about these fantasies? If you feel the need to talk about them and explore why you have them, or if you feel bothered by the fantasies you have and by the things that you’re turned on by, then perhaps see a therapist. You would at least be in a safe environment to discuss these things - a therapist has heard it all, there’s nothing that can shock a therapist, especially when it comes to sexual fantasies.
Bottom line is, though: there’s nothing wrong with you just because you have these fantasies and are turned on by visual depictions of violence and gore. They’re just part of your sexual expression, and that doesn’t mean you necessarily have any desire to physically carry those visual depictions out. So long as no one is getting hurt, no boundaries are being crossed where another person’s safety or human rights are being violated, there’s nothing wrong with what you get turned on by.
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Will it hurt super bad to lose your virginity with a septate hymen?
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Not intrinsically, however you may require surgical intervention to sever the hymen, depending on the thickness of the septum. This is a very minor and painless (though may be a little uncomfortable) procedure that can be performed by your doctor or sexual health professional in his/her clinic.
If you’re unsure about whether surgical intervention will be required, I suggest making an appointment with your doctor to discuss this and to have an examination. He/she may offer to cut the hymen for you then and there.
i have a question. When a guy finishes and he finishes on your stomach it kind of kills the mood to have to clean it up. After sex i just want to roll over and lay down and cuddle Is there another way so it doesn't have to kill the mood to have to clean up?
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Rub it in the skin! Make a show of it. Rub it into your belly, your breasts, until it’s completely absorbed. It’s very good for your skin and it provides your partner with a little extra visual fun while he’s in afterglow.
Is it bad that I masturbate every day?
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Not at all.
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I'm 17, my partner is a year older. Is it bad that we've waited lots of months to have sex? I mean, I'd love to, but not yet...I feel like it's kinda bothering him, even if he says it doesn't.
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It’s not bad at all. Whenever you’re both ready is what’s important.
Is wanting to cross-dress normal? I'm a straight male and I've just been curious to know what it's like to wear female clothing. I feel ashamed and embarrassed because of it and don't really feel comfortable talking about it with my girlfriend.
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So long as no one is getting hurt, any form of sexual expression is perfectly normal and healthy. I encourage you to indulge in your curiosity - you have nothing to lose if you do. You may find you really love it. You may find it fun but it otherwise does nothing for you.
Either way, it will more than likely sate your curiosity, maybe even answer some questions, and there’s no need to talk to anyone about it if you wish not to. It’s your own personal sexual exploration and it’s perfectly okay for that to be a private thing, unless or until you choose to discuss it with someone.
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If your blog is a reflection of you, you must be an amazing person to be around. I'd be soo lucky to have you as a friend haha.
Your blog is breathtakingly beautiful in every way. I love that you don't discriminate and are so open to pretty much everything.
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Oh, love. You are a sweetheart. Thank you for the lovely comment. ♥
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I have stretch marks on my thighs and I don't know where they came from. How can I get rid of them?
I'm 19, 4'11 tall and weigh 106 pounds and have breast size 34A, is there any way to make my breasts bigger? My boyfriend says he likes my breasts just as they are but I would really like them to be bigger so that my boyfriend has something more to touch and it makes working out for an hourglass figure easier.
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There is no cure for stretch marks. No cheap cure, anyway. The stretch mark removal procedures offered at laser and beauty clinics are very costly and don’t always present with good results.
Rubbing extra virgin olive oil mixed with pure vitamin E oil may help reduce the appearance of stretch marks over time. Remember, too, that stretch marks themselves fade. They don’t disappear completely but they do fade to a white-ish hue and become less prominent. Most people have stretch marks, be they large or small.
As for increasing bust size - again, only surgical intervention will enhance their size. On an aesthetic level, however, you can achieve a bigger bust appearance through acquiring push-up bras or bra inserts that lift the breasts.
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soo I'm kinda self conscious of my vagina.. Because the labia (I think it's called that lol sorry) droops a bit, like it hangs a little, it kinda looks like a post you posted (lol) before the recent asks, I do hope you know what I'm talking about haha, anyways, I reaalllyy want my boyfriend to eat me out and all that wonderful stuff haha, but I pull myself back cos of that, so the point I'm getting here is that, do you think he'll care that my vagina looks like that?
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Trust me, he won’t care what it looks like. What you’re describing is perfectly normal.
24 Apr 2011 @ 09:51AM /
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I had been going out with this guy for a while, and we broke up because he cheated on me. We had sex, once, and now I'm going to be going out with this other guy-- his best friend. Do you think, from a sexual standpoint, this other guy will be less inclined to be with me, physically, because of this?
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Because he’s your ex’s best friend? I can’t answer this question. That will depend entirely on the guy himself, of whom I can’t speak on behalf of because I don’t know him, nor do I know his thoughts/feelings on this.
If you’re asking me if he’ll be less interested in you because you’ve already had sex - I highly doubt that.
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Yeah like the other person said, I'm a completely straight female, but I'm really turned on by lesbian porn. That doesn't make me gay right?
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No. It doesn’t necessarily make you gay. And even if it did, there’s nothing wrong with that.
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I'm 19 and female & 100% straight. I even have a boyfriend! But I've been watching lesbian porn for as long as I can remember. It turns me on more then any other porn out there. What does this mean? It baffles me
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It doesn’t necessarily mean anything. Many women who identify as straight will report being aroused by lesbian porn. For many, this is largely due to the fact that lesbian porn is often depicted with more passion than straight porn.
It’s also a way for women to vicariously indulge in curiosity where they may not have experienced sexual contact with another woman. After all, all people with vaginas know what feels good on their genitals - when one watches sex, they will often find themselves aroused because they know what feels good on their own genitals and are associating arousal with that knowledge.
And lastly, there is the issue of sexual identity. Straight does not mean the same thing for each straight person. Just like any sexual identity, be that straight or gay or bi or any other sexual identification, each straight person will identify with their sexuality in their own individual way. Some straight people will experience being aroused by the idea of same-sex coupling, even if they have no actual desire to partake in same-sex coupling themselves.
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